1. Intolerant mistaken
Affair became real examples. Cause of adultery, not only because the couple felt something less than you, or vice versa. Molester can also occur due to one of the couple's desire to act to meet the physical, emotional, or purely sexual.
If the affair happened because of the need fulfillment of desire, the treason need not give a damn. Leave the mate is more realistic. But the decision back to the parties that betrayed. How big this problem also affects relations to other considerations. Ask for opinions of friends, also need to look for consideration before making a decision.
2. Petty-minded
Narrow-minded couples think and act based on its value could adversely affect the sustainability of relationships. For example, you find a new lover who is more worthy, but outside the city. With his perception, he felt he could not longer be able to run a long distance relationship and choose cut.
Open communication can actually help solve a long distance relationship. Not a few of this type of successful relationship. However, it would be difficult to continue if one party feels unable to live it, and insisted with his own perspective.
3. Differences in direction and purpose
Relationships tend work in different direction and feel inline. Both in proximity as an individual, job, or relationship as lovers. You and she felt different and incompatible directions. This could provoke conflict in the relationship.
This relationship is usually preceded by emotional, physical attraction, or merely sexual. However, after the ranks, there are differences that can not be reconciled. There's even a difference of values and beliefs.
4. Economic Issues
The problems that became the basis of divorce is economic problems, these problems often occur in the State of underdeveloped countries, in the area of the slum areas, the urban periphery.
The relationship will be healthier if since the beginning of your relationship and he underwent three following apply:
- Do not be too serious response to problems or easily offended, deal with the more relaxed and just simple thinking.
- Finding out there thinking of your partner's narrow, which could threaten the relationship.
- Get to know further what is wanted from the relationship, especially if it leads to more serious levels of such marriages. You and he should understand, what kind of relationship to be built.
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