Warm relation in bed believes be a one of recipe the long life of marriage. But sex desire is not stay long life, sometime down and even can die. There are many reasons that cause the libido down, start from psychology factor and life style. Those factors will describe one by one here:
Stress
Our body response to stress by exert of adrenalin and kortisol. Long stress can affected to the hormonal body and seems to lessen the sex passionate.
Depression
Libido and depression have complicated relationship. Depression can change the biochemistry body ability and lessen the libido. Several medicine for depression also have side effect to lessen the libido.
Low Self-esteem
Someone who feels that he/she is not interesting anymore usually less to have sex activity. Someone who has low self esteem usually afraid of ignorance.
Alcohol and Narcotic Effect
A little alcohol can make more spirit, but much alcohol can affect to nerve system and causes the body feel tired and difficult to have passionate. Narcotic like marijuana can increase pituitary gland which regulates testosterone production.
Lack of Sleep
Our boy need of enough rest, to keep our mind in focus, health body and libido keep active. Lack of sleep will increase cortisol level that suppress the libido.
Medicine Effect
Medicine use for depression and high blood pressure and other chronicle diseases often have side effect to suppress the libido.
Erection Dysfunction
Man who has dysfunction erection often time lazy to make in love because they are afraid of this condition.
Hormonal Imbalance
Libido very affected by the level of testosterone, the condition difficult to passionate often time causes by hormonal imbalance or low level of testosterone. General causal of hormonal disturbance is by liver disease because this organ has function to destroy estrogen. If this function is impaired, estrogen level will increase and the libido down.
Menopause
most women experience a decrease in sexual desire after menopause. Cause quite a lot, ranging from a decline in the hormone estrogen, so the condition of the vagina becomes dry and causing penetration to be painful. Menopause also causes reduced testosterone in the body.
Diseases
Serious systemic diseases, like cancer or kidney disease can reduce testosterone levels and reduced sperm production. Other diseases that cause a reduction in testosterone, among others, HIV infection and diabetes.
Love to fade
Couples who have communication disorders and the conflict continued until the end is not in love anymore, certainly had no desire anymore to intimate in bed.
No Time for Sex
Many couples do not have time for sex. "Many people think there's always time for love, but at the end of the day they were too tired to have sex," says Irwin Goldstein, director of the San Diego Sexual Medicine.
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